Okay, so today, I’m gonna talk about a subject very important to me : LOVE.

All living beings want to be loved (and i’m not talking only about the human beings). Everyone is alone at first, and wants to share their lives, their happiness with someone special, with one meaningful soul with whom you can talk about everything, share many of your secrets… A soul that complete yours. 

But love is nothing without trust. Trust is believing that they won’t hurt you, trust is believing that they won’t tell something you don’t want other people to know about. But trust is also believing that you’re gonna share your own personality, your own past, present and future, your own life with a person in whom you have a total faith.

Trust and love are two notions human beings can’t live without. But, there’s also a third one : confidence. 

I mean, have you ever had the feeling that today is THE day ? That today you could “conquer the world” if you want ? That you feel amazing, and beautiful, that you’re just happy and you don’t care about what others think ? These are the good days. 

And then… there are the bad days. You just feel it as soon as you wake up. Most of the time you’re just grumpy, morose, and just sad in fact. You don’t even know where this is coming from. You just want to go home and hide, you don’t want to see anyone, and just to curl up in bed, and stay there until the end of time. (Okay I might exaggerate a little)

You’re may be asking how is this related to love ? And specially about finding love ?

Well, that’s simple. When you’ve confidence in yourself, you’re more likely to find love (and yes, I’m talking about prince charming on his white horse, and yes I’m a romantic for those who haven’t read any of my previous articles). Anyway, this is something I’ve learnt not a long time ago.  

I don’t know about you, but as far as I’m concerned, i’m soon going back to school (well actually at the university) in 3 days. It’s going to be my first year there, so I don’t really know what’s going to happen and all. Even though, I’m pretty excited about it and a little scared too. You know the kind of feeling you can’t ignore. I think this is going one hell of experience, I mean, being able to meet a lot of people less narrow minded than in high school (at least I hope), and I hope finally meet THE guy, you know. I pretty excited about this year. And I have to say that’s a first!

Anyway, I think I’m more comfortable with myself, a little less shy than before, so that’s great! And actually I feel fine, for the first time, when I stroll, I don’t care about the people around me, I mean, before I was thinking about what they could think of me, whereas now, I hardly think about them whether they are thinking about or looking at me. I guess I’ve become self-confident. I don’t know really how, but I guess it’s when you grow up, you realize that what you considered as important isn’t really anymore. You can feel emotions that you think you’re the only to feel that way, but that isn’t true. Everybody can feel that way at different stage of their lives. Growing up is being able to see things in a different perspective, for example, when we are kids we only see the base of a triangle but as we go along, we realize there are various sides of this triangle. 

So to finish this article, I guess I grew up in the last… 24 hours; no I’m kidding; in last year. I’ve learned a lot of things about people, about myself, and that’s how you “control your life”, how you can be thankful about your own qualities, how you can know what make you stronger….